Monday, June 04, 2007
House of BBQ and Margaritas
The Zugs of the famous House of BBQ had our whole family over for dinner last night. Jenny and her family were there too, along with a host of other lovely folks. We thoroughly enjoyed ourselves!
The House of BBQ moniker is well-deserved! We feasted on JItterbugs, margaritas, salmon, chicken, grilled veggies, margaritas, great salads, s'mores and margaritas. Holy cow, the margaritas! We rubbed shoulders and had conversations with all kinds of lovely folk. The kids ran free (and played the Wii) and it was so warm and welcoming. It was a wonderful, relaxed time. (Unfortunately, I forgot my camera...I remembered the extra batteries for it, but not the actual camera...sigh. I really NEEDED a photo of Jenny's awesome sunglasses!)
I've been thinking about the evening a lot and about what made it great: The Zugs are welcoming, relaxed hosts. Their house was lived-in, and everyone pitched in to get the work done. I tend to be less relaxed as a host and feel that I have to have everything planned ahead of time. Jen's rhythm was much more natural and as a result, I easily fell into it, became a part of it. I don't think about my preparation making things less comfortable for folks, but it really can. At the Zugs, I felt like family. I reveled in the community they have helped create.
Did I mention the margaritas? Here's the impromptu recipe we concocted in Jen's slightly small (Amen!) but fabulously cozy kitchen:
Easy Margarita Pitchers
1 can limeade concentrate2 cans water
1 can tequila
1/2 can triple sec
lots of ice
Stir in a big pitcher, add the ice, and try not to drink too many. For best results, drink in the Zug kitchen while bumping shoulders, having 5 conversations at once, laughing at the children, and experiencing the wonder of human relationships.
This makes for a bit of a strong libation...you could cut down the hooch or up the water if you wanted to.

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I always feel like I'm disorganised when I have people over - still cooking this and that, wiping the running-around-like-a-mad-cow-cause-they're-coming-any-minute-now sweat from my brow... I'm learning to just sit back and chill! We have an open plan kitchen/living area, so they just stand by the bench and chat while I finish things off. It's nice. And now you tell me people enjoy that more? No more sweaty brows for me!
Posted by: Cecily | June 6, 2007 05:19 PM
I once watched an interview with someone - I can't remember for the life of me who, or even where I saw it - who said she always answered her door in a bathrobe with a towel around her head. She then set her guests to work chopping and slicing while she finished beautifying, giving everyone else a nice opportunity to get to know each other.
I don't quite go that far, but I do think it builds conversation and friendship for everyone to participate in the preparation of a meal.
Maybe it's all those years spent living with roommates? Who knows - but I'm glad it sets a warm atmosphere for all involved.
Posted by: Jen Zug | June 6, 2007 10:56 PM